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You’re Never Too Old to Build Emotional Intelligence
A recent study suggests we can learn to regulate and manage our emotions even after we’re reached adulthood.
You might be competent with spreadsheets, in the kitchen, or behind the wheel of a car. But are you competent with your emotions?
“Emotional competence” is the ability to comprehend, manage, and express one’s feelings and the feelings of others. It may come as no surprise to learn that emotional competency is linked to better health and more satisfying relationships. That’s great for the emotionally competent folks, but what about the rest of us—can we improve our emotional competency, even after we’ve reached adulthood?
A recent study in the Journal of Applied Psychology suggests we can, at least after a little bit of practice. What’s more, these gains in emotional competency stick for at least a year. Read More
Dr. Jay’s Note: Mindfulness, with a consistent practice, will ripple through to improve every aspect of your life. I advocate taking 10 second breaks multiple times throughout the day to be silent, breathe deep into your diaphragm, smile, love, daydream or think about anything that warms your heart.
— James Allen
Toward a More Mindful Nation
A quiet revolution is happening in America. It’s not a revolution fueled by anger. It’s a peaceful revolution, being led by ordinary citizens: teachers in our public schools; nurses and doctors in hectic emergency rooms, clinics, and hospitals; counselors and social workers in tough neighborhoods; military leaders in the midst of challenging conflicts; and many others across our nation. This revolution is supported by the work of scientists and researchers from some of the most prominent colleges and universities in America, such as the University of Wisconsin, Stanford, UCLA, the University of Miami, Emory, Duke, and Harvard, to name just a few.
At the core of this revolution is mindfulness.
Put simply, mindfulness is about finding ways to slow down and pay attention to the present moment—which improves performance and reduces stress. It’s about having the time and space to attend to what’s right in front of us, even though many other forces are trying to keep us stuck in the past or inviting us to fantasize or worry about the future. It’s about a natural quality each of us possesses, and which we can further develop in just a few minutes a day. Read More
Dr. Jay’s Note: The easiest way for you to maintain your mind, body & spirit connection is to take a 10 second mindful break multiple times a day & breathe, be silent, smile, be in nature, read inspirational works, listen to uplifting music or just use your imagination & think about anything that warms your heart.
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
— Richard David Bach
— Gary Zukav
— Mark Nepo
As we celebrate LOVE today, spend a few moments & be kind to yourself. Pause, be silent, breathe deep into your belly & smile.
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Surf’s up, Colwyn Thomas
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Unfortunately it often just makes things worse!
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We are connected with all living things in ways we do not quite comprehend and our behaviours may well backfire on us.
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These work :)
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Pic found here! :)
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I don’t have to try to explain memes to my dad, because he has a tumblr.